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Boy ♡ Man

It was not a normal situation

This report comes from the research of Dr. Frits Bernard. Dr. Bernard cites it as one of six examples of ‘characteristic’ biographies on the impact of boy-man relationships.
Published first:  Magazine   Time to read: 1 min
Report-ID: 51097  (to the German version)
Source: PAN Vol. 1 Nr. 3
Author: Frits Bernard
Perspective: grown up boy
Start of relationship: 1960s
Age of the boy: 14
Age of the man: 39
Sexual id (boy): heterosexual
# relationships (boy): one relationship
Country: Netherlands
Language: Dutch
Plausibility: 3 of 5

Contextual links

Case 1 (this), [Case 2](/en/reports/1960s/en-fb-case-2/), [Case 3](/en/reports/1960s/en-fb-case-3/), [Case 4](/en/reports/1950s/en-fb-case-4/), [Case 5](/en/reports/1910s/en-fb-case-5/), [Case 6](/en/reports/1960s/en-fb-case-6/)

Source: PAN Vol. 1, Nr. 3, 1979

My first contact was shen I was fourteen. This was a positive experience for me. My partner was about 39. Now I am engaged to be married. The reason I now have a negative attitude toward it is because, in my eyes, it was not a normal situation but my age and education at the time did not permit me to make a proper judgement. Moreover, the person in question gave me so much pleasure that I just could not refuse… I thnk at the time I was afraid to lose him.

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